I have a question for you. It doesn’t matter if you’re a guy (Romeo) or a gal (Juliet). What I’d like to know is this – how are your romantic gestures being received? Are you even making romantic gestures? If grades were being issued, do you think would you receive an A+…or a big, fat F? Maybe somewhere in-between? Okay. Yeah, that was four questions.
And here are a few more…
Does Romeo or Juliet swoon when you walk into a room, or do they even spare you a glance when you get home? Is their voice all soft and mushy when you give them a call, or do they exhibit more enthusiasm talking to someone at tech support? Are fireworks going off when you kiss, or does it feel like you’re locking lips with a cold fish?
If you’re living more like roommates than lovers, is there anything you can do to change it?
As a romance author, I find I’m a bit of an expert on – well – romance, and I say…there’s a good possibility. If you’re willing to put forth a little effort.
I’m going to be sharing some low cost (or no cost) ways you can show your someone special exactly how much they mean to you. Don’t worry, I won’t suggest that you stand on a busy street corner singing Only Words at the top of your lungs. Although it’s a perfect song to describe what smart lovers have known since the beginning of time. Those words are nice to hear … but if they’re not backed by actions, they’re hollow and useless.
If you think that any of the suggested tips are a good fit for you, and you decide to give them a try, I’d love to know if you got the results you hoped for. Let me know in the comments section below. Although I can’t guarantee you’ll get any results, most people respond well to sweetness, consideration, and attention. Just remember, you will need to exercise some patience, and be consistent. Anything worth having usually requires effort.