Stretching the budget to include date nights can be a challenge in this economy. Just something as simple as going to see a movie, when you include sodas and popcorn, can set you back $30.00 or more. A nice supper out? Yeah, I know. Ouch. And we haven’t even gotten into working around hectic schedules.
But sometimes you both need to do whatever it takes to enjoy a romantic evening together.
All couples need to get away for some alone time. Time to focus on one another, and shut out the rest of the world. The jobs, bills, responsibilities, and distractions like computers and cell phones. You especially need time for just the two of you if you have kids, because sometimes it’s hard to see yourselves as something other than parents.
Of course there’s that whole budget thing, isn’t there? Well don’t worry…there are plenty of free and inexpensive things you can do for date night (or morning, or afternoon).
A walk in the rain can be very romantic – not to mention a whole lot of fun! As long as it’s just raining and not storming. Best of all, it’s free.
Don’t be a statistic
You probably thought I was going to bring up divorce, didn’t you? No. I’m talking about the many couples who take one another for granted. Sure they still love one another, but they’re not in love. They’ve been together long enough that they don’t really see each other anymore.
If you don’t want that to happen to your relationship, here’s something you can try.
Date night doesn’t have to break the bank.
Grab a comfy quilt, pack a picnic basket (or duffel bag) with a couple of pretty plates, two wine glasses, napkins and real silverware. Arrange for a family member or friend to babysit if you have kids. Then steal your Romeo or Juliet away for a picnic for two. In a park, on a beach, maybe even your own backyard. The location doesn’t matter…as long as it’s fairly private.
Your menu can even be budget-friendly. Wouldn’t it be great to surprise the love of your life with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, carrot sticks, grapes, and graham cracker cookies (recipe below), served on your best china? You could fill a thermos with Kool-Aid or lemonade, and there you go. You’ve just arranged a romantic dinner date that costs about $5.00.
No, it’s not a 5-star restaurant…it’s better. Because you took the time to plan it, prepare the meal and, most importantly, share it with the one you love. That’s what they will remember. That’s what makes it romantic.
Okay, this isn’t really a ‘recipe,’ more like a guideline. Dump about a cup of powdered sugar in a bowl (carefully, or you’ll be wearing it). Add a heaping spoonful of creamy peanut butter. Now add milk a tablespoon at a time, stirring until it looks like frosting. If you don’t add the milk a little at a time, you’ll have soup, then you’ll have to add more sugar.
Cover bowl and put in picnic basket, along with a package of graham crackers. Make them together after you eat, or the crackers will get soggy.
If you have leftover frosting…use your imagination.
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If you think that any of the suggested tips are a good fit for you, and you decide to give them a try, I’d love to know if you got the results you hoped for. Although I can’t guarantee you’ll get any results, most people respond well to sweetness, consideration and attention. Just remember, you will need to exercise some patience, and be consistent. Anything worth having usually requires effort.
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