I know I’ve used this song a few times, but it’s really the only one I can find that is so appropriate for so many situations…
Recently, I’ve run into two people like the ones in the video. Last week, someone took a parking spot I’d been waiting for, and today… Well today, I suppose the woman at the store would be like the guy in the sports car at the beginning of the video.
My daughter and I had to make a quick trip to the store for a couple of things and while there, happened upon three women blocking an entire aisle. We stopped and waited, and after about ten seconds, I was surprised when none of them moved. Maybe ten more seconds and the older one finally stepped aside. And when she did, her daughter blew a gasket, nearly shouting,
“Mom! You don’t get the ‘F’ out of the way until they say excuse me!” (and she didn’t just say ‘F’ either)
She continued spouting off, but I don’t even know what she said after that. I remember muttering something about most people would have been considerate and gotten out of the way – or not blocked the aisle in the first place.
Even now, hours later, all I can think is wow, the nerve of some people!
I honestly don’t get how someone who is so blatantly discourteous can expect another person to live up to their idea of polite. I thought I was being polite when I didn’t say a word about how rude they were.
I’ve never been cussed out in a store before, and for nothing more than waiting quietly for someone to remember their manners well … again, all I can say is wow.
If you’d run into a Ms. Personality like I did, how would you have reacted? I honestly wanted to say more, but having never been a fan of making a spectacle of myself, I just walked away.
It seems that forgetting manners seems to be commonplace these days though. Especially in November and December. People tend to, as I said in the title, check their holiday spirit at the door the second they step into a store – and leave it there until they head back out to the parking lot. And the closer it gets to Christmas, the worse it gets.
Have you noticed a similar trend where you live?
And now, because I’m going to try my best to put the incident out of my mind, I’ll leave you with this…
It is the most wonderful time of the year … and I won’t allow mean people to bruise my Christmas spirit.